Though I will never read the book and though I may not watch the movie, I’d just like to say, based on the popularity of this novel that indeed, people love tragedy.
It’s somewhat ironic that all of us look for happiness but what people don’t realize is that we don’t just look for happiness plain and simple. We are all looking for a certain shade of joy and that is the happiness, no matter how brief, that we get out of a tragedy.
People love good things but they love tragedy more. Why? Because the sorrow, the pain, the depression that comes with tragedy makes us feel more alive. So yes, all of us are emotional masochists in one way or another.
Though none of us will say it out loud and though none of us may even realize it, but we yearn for pain. Or specifically, we yearn for the brief happiness that comes with the pain.
Confused? Trust me, I am a bit confused myself. But you can’t deny that I’m somewhat making sense.
Based on the photos of the movie that I saw, the girl wears a nasal cannula all the time which would tell anybody that her lungs are not working properly. And out of all the lung diseases out there, my guess would be cancer. Either it’s been lung cancer from the start or it began as a different type of cancer and later, just spread to her lungs. (No, I’m not a doctor. Yes, I’m a nurse.)
The guy seems well and healthy but then I saw this one photo of them sort of being in a group. My thought was it couldn’t be a school organization because if you already need support for breathing then any sort of school activity will definitely exhaust you. Which then lead me to my second assumption that it was a cancer support group. So if the guy was there, it’s either he just happened to be there (some sort of accident or twist of fate) or he’s also a cancer patient that was just on remission that’s why he looked well.
Based on those two assumptions, the ending is pretty much predictable. I have two endings in mind. First, if the guy just happened to bump into the girl at a cancer support group then that means that the girl dies in the end. Second, if the guy is a cancer patient in remission, then I bet that for some reason his cancer will go back and he’ll die first. I thought of the second one because if you’re the author, you would want to take the world by surprise. All along you’ve lead them to think that it was the girl who was really sick but then you find a way to make the plot more dramatic by throwing a curveball and that curveball is the guy dying first.
Either way, the plot is simply this: they fall for each other, have an amazing love story and then their love meets a tragic end by way of death. (Please, correct me if I’m wrong.) I’m not belittling the essence of the story. All I’m saying is that this is exactly what I’m talking about. People love tragedy.
Everybody knows that someone will die in the end. That is the tragedy. But people don’t buy books and go to movie theaters yearning for tragedy. What they yearn for is that moment of bliss, that brief happiness that will transpire from the moment the characters meet up to the time the characters last saw each other. The tearjerker moments, the kiss, the exchange of sweet nothings, the effort that goes into loving someone beyond all odds, that is what people are after.
So indeed, people love tragedy. Or should I say, people love the happiness that goes with tragedy.
P.S.
Last assumption, I’m guessing that “the FAULT in our stars” is that destiny brought two people together just to end it abruptly by one of them leaving so soon. But then as people say, even in death, love is never over.